Sep 17
2008How and Why Men Always Take Advantage Over Women
Filed Under (Uncle Che) by Uncle Che on 17-09-2008
Tagged Under : Romance
Ask a man out there “what are the characteristics of a woman?”, and you will be very shocked by the answers he will give you. These may be general and maybe true but while reading, especially if you are a woman, always try to look more on the positive than the negative side of the coin.
- Women are physically weak: this gives men the upper hand. That is why you can find a man battering his spouse without even when he is wrong.
- Women are hardworking: that is even the reason why men go more and more lazy everyday. Is very common to find a man who can’t even take off his shoes and trousers prior to a bath and will call for woman to do it for him.
- Women are very passionate, affectionate, loving and caring: Men think this gives them the advantage of always going off track. They don’t care about themselves because they know a woman will always be there to clear their mess and clean up their dirty tracks. They even go ahead to hurt women any way they want, knowing that at the end, to make peace, a woman will come back to plead guilty.
- Women are second in command: the issue of women empowerment is gradually gaining grounds, but the fact that the woman in still second in the family remains. A man will always hold the position as “head of the family” and as such, demonstrates all possible signs of dictatorship. He takes decisions and cares less if they favor the woman also or not. Pride won’t let them listen to a woman, even when they know she is right.
- Women are very intelligent: Are you a student? Do you belong to an Organization or work in an office? Try to carry out some statistics on the people who contribute more in your group, and I bet you, averagely, the women will always beat the men. This gives the men a reason of always allowing the woman solve the puzzles. They, at times, don’t care how the children are being fed or educated. All they know is that they have a mother and she can make impossible things possible.
- Women demand a lot of attention: I don’t know if I am presenting this point the right way, but just look at it this way. If a man and a woman who truly love each other are living miles apart, who do you think will spend more sleepless nights thinking of the other? Who do you think will always want to make the “Good Morning Call”? Who do you think will silently cry under the sheets at night when the lights go off? I won’t believe you if your answer is different from mine. In a majority of cases, the woman is the one who misses the man more. Some men will use this as a means of punishment for the woman any time they feel like maltreating her. Just refusing to eat, or staying out late can set a woman crying.
Talking to Men
I don’t see anything wrong with the characteristics I have mentioned above. I use them to evaluate and praise a woman. If a woman is lacking in any of the above characteristics, I find something missing in her instead. I don’t take any as an advantage I have over a woman. The world is getting more and more civilized and I think we should change the way we feel towards women.
According to the Christian religion, God made a man first. He saw that man was lonely and unhappy. He then removed a rib from man and made a woman to play the role of being a companion to man. If you don’t value a woman, what else on this planet do you value? If you don’t and never ever want to value a woman, do it for the sake of your mother. Your mother, is/was a woman and a “second” God to you…even if she was never there for you.
Do women also take advantage over men? If “Yes”, How?


this is just what i likke.if men could hold women in such high esteem as you do,then i believe we the women too will feel apprecaited and not downgraded and as such,strive to make ourselves better for you.your facts are just true to live and i will not contradict the fact that being a woman,we have our own short comings but you the men have to help us out.a woman is so softhearted and passionate thus a man can make her who he really want her to be and not just see nothing good in her or always consider her as the weaker sex who can not handle things rightly.i believe with such sincerity u’ve outlined,men learn to respect us and we too pick up from where we are lacking.thanks
EMMANUELLA YOUH TEM
Hmm Emma,
Thanks very much for that great remark:)
It is true that many men treat women this way. But the simple fact is, most women seek out these types of men. If you are like me, who doesn’t have the emotional capacity to use physical strength and mind games to manipulate the behavior of others, most women will never give you the time of day.
Or at least, women approach romance in such a way as to force the man to perform an action without prior knowledge of consent. I hope the women out there understand what I mean by this. Think of how you feel if a man asks “May we kiss?” From personal experience this allows you to drop her off at her door and go home early and you can watch Saturday Night Live or Mad TV.
So ladies, next time you are out with that guy you think is so sweet, and you wish he would just grab you and start with you, maybe you should take the first step and you won’t have to always hook up with the men who use women as objects. It may not be weakness that stops him from taking what he wants, it may be a genuine respect for the fact that you have not indicated an interest in him as a partner.
But take that courteous, respectful guy and show him that you want the same thing he does and see if he doesn’t totally rock your world. hint: he will be as concerned that you get yours as he is for himself. Try it and see!
Hi J. Anon,
What you’ve just said has swept me off my feet. I remember a story I once read on yahoo (sorry can’t find it again) that clearly explains why the nice guys never get lucky with girls. I often ask myself what women actually want ina relationship; love or wild romance. I little of both in the right proportion can work but because of their shallow thinking and wild fantasy, they end up with the real players. Or is it that players are too smart for them and can pick and drop them at any time?
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Yes it’s true women are frequently treated this way by men. I, myself have beaten a few women in my time…
Women deserve no rights, they’re weaker, and lesser