Changed Plans, No more Union

Filed Under (Uncle Che) by Uncle Che on 06-12-2008

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After 4 years of a very strong relationship with my lovely baby, Noela, I thought this December will host the magical moment. I thought I will take her to the alter and a priest present us before God and declare us Husband and Wife.

Now, with regrets, I think this is not going to be possible. I have fully understood that it takes just more than Love for two to unite in marriage. Besides the emotional, mental and physical maturity is the financial maturity. One has to be ready not only to love and cherish forever his wife, but also to protect and provide for till the end of time.

I have talked this out with my love. She was very very mad with the decisions but at least she understood.  She thinks that mid 2009, say June will be a good time but for certain reasons, I still prefer December.

Noela has been waiting for four years, and if I rally have to be objective, asking her to wait for another year is too much, but for my sake, she would. She believes it is better to prepare and go along well than hasten and fall in traps. I love and trust her judgment.

Thanks, baby.