Feb 22
2009Can I Please Everyone?
Filed Under (Self Improvement) by Uncle Che on 22-02-2009
Tagged Under : character, conduct
Certainly, the answer is NO. It is “impossible” to please everyone. However, the word impossible at times is subjective. Many people don’t even want to have them in their vocabulary.
No categorization system can tell the different types of people on our planet but looking at things the very simple way, I can talk about the friendly and unfriendly. Some people live a “self-sufficient” life and avoid getting involved with as many people as possible. They do believe the have all and that anyone stepping into their life has nothing to offer, but may be a source of some of their belongings leaking out. They feel they need nobody. They don’t reflect on their actions and don’t care about how they impact others. Most people hate them. Surprisingly enough, though, they still have their own friends who may be like or unlike.
Some people on the other hand are very friendly, helpful, caring and loving. They love others and treat them as they will be done by. They try to do things the way that will please everyone. I guess that’s the problem I have. Can I really please everybody?
No action, no matter how good it is can be pleasing to everyone. At times, even the people who benefit from such actions still grumble and talk negative behind your back. Most of the time, they will take advantage of you because of your kind and tender heart, but letting a few spoil the show is not worth it.
Always try to do right. I know I can’t please everyone at once but I do my best to ask God for the right decisions and choices.

