Can I Please Everyone?

Filed Under (Self Improvement) by Uncle Che on 22-02-2009

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Certainly, the answer is NO. It is “impossible” to please everyone. However, the word impossible at times is subjective. Many people don’t even want to have them in their vocabulary.

No categorization system can tell the different types of people on our planet but looking at things the very simple way, I can talk about the friendly and unfriendly. Some people live a “self-sufficient” life and avoid getting involved with as many people as possible. They do believe the have all and that anyone stepping into their life has nothing to offer, but may be a source of some of their belongings leaking out. They feel they need nobody. They don’t reflect on their actions and don’t care about how they impact others. Most people hate them. Surprisingly enough, though, they still have their own friends who may be like or unlike.

Some people on the other hand are very friendly, helpful, caring and loving. They love others and treat them as they will be done by. They try to do things the way that will please everyone. I guess that’s the problem I have. Can I really please everybody?

No action, no matter how good it is can be pleasing to everyone. At times, even the people who benefit from such actions still grumble and talk negative behind your back. Most of the time, they will take advantage of you because of your kind and tender heart, but letting a few spoil the show is not worth it.

Always try to do right. I know I can’t please everyone at once but I do my best to ask God for the right decisions and choices.

Mum Understands I Like Doing Things My Own Way

Filed Under (Uncle Che) by Uncle Che on 12-01-2009

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Uncle Che is too carefree. This is what most of my friends think about me. What! I can’t imagine he carries on for a whole month without calling me. He walks out late at night, isn’t he scared of danger? Doesn’t life mean a thing to him? Oh, look at the speed at which he does it, isn’t he scared of being late? He takes too much risks, even with his health and feeding. He sleeps very few hours a day and gets up very early in the morning as if on a mission to save the world.

I have some friends who will just round up a thousand things they had to say and present it as “he is not a serious guy”. Ha ha ha. My baby says my problem is that I am just too courageous and fearless, that is why i hardly care about certain things. On the other hand, some place this same as “a courageous fool”.

Well, there are things about humans that you can’t just change. Each human being displays extremes of one or more character types and though not very positive to their living,  they try as hard as possible to keep it in the right direct and minimize the harm inflicted upon others.

Some people who really understand me, like my mum, would just say “Che is the kind of guy who likes doing things his own way”. Yea, mum, you are right. That’s who I am.